As a teen, its hard to balance family, friends, school, work along with a boyfriend/girlfriend and sometimes you need a little help. No problem. Cat Got Your Tongue is here to help! Ill give you tips on how to deal with your relationship problems, first dates, etc... You can also email me and ask your question directly! Enjoy!



Saturday, December 3, 2011

A shout out to the guys

OK so here's a shout out to all you boys out there looking for advice on creating a new relationship, etc... Girls, I will be posting one of these for you later if you like this.Let me know! Love hearing from you!

OK so how do you know when to ask her out? (Read here for advice on how to tell if your crush likes you) So after you are positive or pretty sure she likes you back go ahead and ask her out! Ask her to a movie or a dance or dinner! I don't remember where but I read that going to the movies aren't quite the best first dates. As they may be super fun when you see something you both like, you don't get much time to talk or bond as much as you would over dinner or something. If you absolutely want to go see a movie with her, go early so you have time to talk before and maybe plan to do something after (like dinner) that way you'll be able to do something you both like and be able to 'bond' with each other.

Now that's you've been on your first date and your both having lots of fun...now when do you kiss her for the first time? Some of the sweetest first kisses are the ones at the end of a first date. You tell her you had a really nice time and ask her for another date sometime and then you kiss her. I don't mean like a big theatrical kiss (at least, not yet if at all) just a small kiss on the lips or the cheek will do just fine. This kind of kiss will leave her all giddy and happy and she'll be super excited for her next date with you (that is if you both had a good time ;))

I want to give her a gift for Christmas or her birthday, what do I give her? OK so the big part of choosing a gift is knowing what she likes! When your on a date, make sure you both talk about each other about what your likes and dislikes are, what your favorite thing to do is, your favorite color, etc... If she likes the color yellow and clocks or something get her a yellow alarm clock or something. Note: Be CREATIVE! Girls love it when you give them gifts that show you really thought about what you were going to give her! You could even give her tickets to go see a concert or something with her (that is if she likes the kind of concert you got tickets to ;))

If you like this or would like more advice, let me know! Comment below or send me an email! Love to hear from you and love to help :)

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