How To Get Them To Notice You

When trying to get noticed by your crush you don't want to over do it because then you might scare them away. Now before you back out and say no way, I can't do this, read this post. It will give you pointers and tips on how to get your crush's attention without going overboard.

Step 1:
When you walk by them or see them in the halls look at them and try to make eye contact. I'm not saying stare at the back of their head in class. No that's just going to make them feel awkward around you. Just make eye contact and then quickly look away. Don't look down when you look away though, this could come off as you being a shy person who doesn't want to be noticed or talked to. Keep your head up and just look away from them after you have made eye contact.

Step 2:
Smile at your crush when you see them. Make sure your smile is relaxed and not forced. What I mean by that is don't give them a creepy, over the top smile. Just simply smile normally at them and if they smile back this could be a great sign!

Step 3:
Dress to impress. I don't mean go out in a tux or a fancy dress I mean just wear something nice like a cute shirt or something that shows you actually care about what you look like! Make sure your hair isn't sticking out in all directions (unless, guys, thats how you always do your hair). Wear something that fits your personality. If you like a certain color, wear it! If you have a favorite T-shirt that shows something you like to do, wear it! Cloths can say a lot about a person so make sure they are saying the right thing!

Step 4:
Join a club or activity your crush is in. This can help you get a feel for what they like and help you get to know them more. NOTE: make sure the thing you join is something your going to have fun in and enjoy too! Otherwise it's no fun at all.

Step 5:
Complement them. Tell them how nice their hair looks or how you really like one of their articles of clothing. (Jewlery, ladies, is a great conversation starter! So wear something that your crush might notice. But remember to wear something that matches your personality). Girls: if you are watching your crush play a sport make sure to complement them later on how well they played (you can even include specific plays you though he did well in). Guys: Notice something your crush does well and complement her on it later. Girls love it when you complement them or when you remember something they've said to you and bring it up in a later conversation.

Step 6:
This is a big one: BE YOURSELF! Dont ever try to be someone your not to impress your crush! It will only make you miserable in the end! Don't pretend you like something you dont because that could come back and bite you in the butt later. Tell your crush the truth about you when you two are talking. Don't lie to them about what you like to do or what you do in your spare time... it won't turn out well. Trust me.

Step 7:
TALK TO THEM! Don't be the shy person in the corner not talking to anyone, thats NOT attractive at all! A girl likes to talk to guys who like to talk to them and vise versa. Make conversation over anything. It can be a homework assignment, funny or annoying teacher, a latest football game, drama productinon, whatever! Just talk to them!

Hope this was helpfull! Let me know what you think! Comment below, follow me, or even shoot me an email, I love to hear from you and would be glad to answer any of your questions! Thanks and good luck!

How To Tell If They Like You

There are numerous different signs to tell if your crush likes you back or not.

Girls:

• His voice gets softer or quieter when you two are talking.
• He looks into your eyes or at your lips while you talk. (sometimes when he is talking)
• His friends start acting differently around you.
• He tells you that you smell nice or you look pretty
• If he is nervous, he may just act differently when you are around him.

Guys:

• She looks into your eyes (sometimes her pupils will be dilated)
• She may blush a little when she's around you
• She may sit facing you even if you arn't talking
• She fiddles with her teeth such as chewing on a fingernail or stiking a fingernail inbetween her teeth.
• She laughs a lot when you talk (this could be a sign she is nervous)
• She touches your arm or hand when talking to you.
• She plays with her necklace or bracelet
• She plays with her hair (normally twirling it around her finger)
• She may blink more than usuall when talking to you
• She smiles at you (not forced) escpecially when she sees you in the hall.
• She rubs her wrists

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